Tis the Season...
What do these women have in common:Jessica Simpson
Jenny Sanford
Mechelle McNair (unique situation)
Kesha Nichols
Lauren London
Kate Gosselin
They been victimized by the jerkish delayed behavior. Now i know anyone can be a jerk. It doesnt matter how big your GPA, how much money you have, or how highly you think of yourself as a "good guy". Don't get me wrong, women can be jerks to we just don't have that huge delay that most male jerks have...what do I mean? I mean that for some reason it takes people years to find out that they don't want to be with them. They think of their relationship as a routine rather than a unity. Jerkish behavior includes extreme selfishness. Most people have good intentions, but usually the person is only thinking whats best for them and not the only person. (Do you think Obama would make a good president if he just thought of things to benefit himself and his reputation? I think not) Its ok to do whats best for you, but like a wise person to me, consideration will go a long way.
If Jessica Simpson was wining about a wedding ring, why did Tony Romo string her along in the relationship anyway? Why did it take Richard Jefferson so long to beak up with Kesha Nichols (before the wedding in an e-mail!?) Kate Gossilin has to sit around and watch her ex husband play around with a 22 year old in the media. Lauren London has to accept the fact that she wasn't special in Wayne's life. Jenny Sanford has to be embarrassed about her husband placing her 2nd in his life due to a woman that doesn't even life in the U.S. Lets not forget about Mechelle McNair who has to tell her younger sons how their daddy got shot by his "other woman".
When i hear about stories like this i get a sense of relief that I am not alone when it comes to being victimized by the jerk syndrome. But then i think again and i realize that I have never experienced half as much humiliation as these women. I thank God that he reveales to me what is not meant to be before I get in too deep. Everything happens for a reason, and like one of my fav. songs say: God didn't promise that it will always be sunshine. We need the experiences like these to realize how strong we are and to be able to tell when we get a real blessing. It kind of creeped me out when i read that Satan can perform miracles to trick us. What I have definately leanred is that the grass isn't always greener on the otherside.
posted by Jadey @ 9:24 AM
2 Comments:
I'll give you the simple answer.
Most men are cowards. And the "But I didn't want to hurt you" answer is crap.
They'd rather have their cake and eat it too, if you catch my drift.
And the whole thing about Satan performing miracles. Yes he can, but he will never have as much power and ability as Him so we be aight :)
"we be aight" so little words, so much meaning! I know sometimes i complain a lot, but the truth is i be aight, I don't Give God enough credit! lol
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